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Confused

Q: I had a boyfriend, but we are no longer together. He loved me, but I wasn’t sure I loved him. He was always asking for sex, since I told him I was a virgin. I kept telling him I wasn’t ready, but he kept asking. One day, I decided to accept. We tried to [...]

What’s His Game?

Q: I’m 23 years old and I’m dating a guy who is 27. At first, everything was perfect, until I found my picture in his phone written as “my sister Mariah”. Mariah isn’t even my name. I’m wondering if he could be cheating or if I’m just imagining things. Another thing is that I love [...]

My Wife Or My Family?

Q: I am 26 years old and I have a wife but no kids. I love my wife and I don’t want to lose her, but the way my family treats us, makes it seem like I might. They say we will go out after we have a baby, so before we get a baby, [...]

My Boyfriend Beats Me

Q: I have been living with my boyfriend for the past four years. We have an 11-month-old baby boy. Ever since I fell pregnant, my boyfriend has been beating me.I am afraid to have him arrested because he might be deported. I still love him so much, but when he beats me up, I see [...]

I Don’t Love My Husband

Q: I married a person who I don’t love. He is fine and we have three kids together. I thought love would come, but I’m stressed all the time and I can’t sleep; and the relationship is depressing. A: What is it about your husband that made you marry him? You must have felt good [...]

How Do I Move On?

Q: I’m 22 years old. My relationships keep failing – what’s wrong with me?My last relationship seemed perfect. He would say the sweetest things and tell me how beautiful he thought I was. I was so happy. Then he told me that there was someone else. I didn’t understand. I cried and we broke up. [...]

My Best Friend Raped Me

Q: I’m 20 years old and I was raped by my best friend. I’ve been dating a guy the same age as me for five years. He knows that I was raped and we never made love. I’m now having a problem which could result in me being sterilised. I don’t know how to tell [...]

Cheating Boyfriend

Q: My boyfriend and I have been dating for a year and four months. We live together at my place. The problem is, he cheats on me. He is 29 years old and I am 34. Do you think it is because of the age difference? He likes to go out every weekend. If he [...]

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